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8 Qualities That Define a Great Man

When searching for that special someone it’s always good to have an image of what he should be like. See, I didn’t start out by coaching women in their love lives, I started out with men. It’s funny when I think about it because what women want from a man is what I was trying to teach them all along.

In any case, here are quite a few qualities that make a man great. In reality, looking for a guy that has these qualities is not that FAR FETCHED as many guys believe. But, if you want to have a higher chance of finding love, identify the ones that matter to you most and STICK to them. In my personal view, men that don’t posses these qualities are not worth my respect.

Is A Gentleman:

A great guy needs to be polite, respectful, considerate and attentive to a woman’s needs. This also includes the classic gentleman behavior which means pulling a woman’s chair, walking on the car side of the street, taking her coat etc. I personally believe that if all men had were gentlemen we would live in a better world. Now sadly, things are not like that so this quality makes a guy stand out. Also, great guys never cross the line of being inappropriate.

Is Direct:

Many men believe that if they constantly have this “whatever” attitude women will suddenly fall in love with them. This is complete bogus, would you like to spend time with a guy that dodges direct questions and moves his shoulders instead of giving an answer? A great guy should look straight into your eyes when he is talking to you, he needs to look and seem genuinely interested in what you have to say. He must have good diction whist engaging in a conversation with an active attitude. Any guy that isn’t direct, is weak. You shouldn’t settle for weak.

Is Faithful:

Faithfulness may be one of the most important characteristics when it comes to great men. Although you can never know for sure if this is the case or not, if you know he’s been a cheater, it’s best to stay away from him.

On a different note… a recent study revealed that around 60% of men cheat at least once in their lives so the only thing you can do to make sure he won’t do it in the future is to try and keep him sexually satisfied. Men don’t cheat because they don’t feel loved anymore, they cheat because they need sex. Some men need to sleep with other women (and if you get one of these guys, you can’t do much) while others cheat because the sex is gone in the relationship. Keeping a healthy sexual relationship is the best thing you can do to keep your man faithful.

Has integrity:

Having integrity is another very important characteristic that makes a great man. This means he will stay true to his word and true to himself. If he tells you that he is going to do something, he will do it. I believe that integrity and ambition are enough to convince you that this man will eventually be financially sound, even if he isn’t. This is also the kind of guy you can rely on, knowing that he will always be there for you. Men with integrity are highly respected and in return they give respect to others. They may require you to be worthy of their respect before they offer it to you because of their high moral compass, they want others to share their values.

Also, these men often show courage because at times they are required to stand up for their beliefs at all times.

Is Honest:

Honesty is a great quality every single person should have but it’s often not that easy to find. A real honest man will tell you the truth and not just what you want to hear. An honest man will not use sleazy stories to get away from things or to look good, but he will tell you what he will do and how he feels about something. It’s true that brutal honesty can be offensive sometimes but it’s better to have a guy that tells you the truth than one that fills you with lies.

It’s easy to tell if a guy is honest. If he lies to you, say 2-3 times it’s very evident that he isn’t. It doesn’t matter what the actual lies are (it can be very small things) as it tells you everything you need to know about his character. A honest man will be genuine and you won’t need to guess about what he is thinking or feelings. Honesty is a great quality for a good man to have.

Is Mature:

Being mature means a man is able to care of himself and approaches problems with a calm and collected manner. He understands the importance of being a man, being independent and values what he has. A mature guy doesn’t have to be rich, but needs to know how to handle his money. It’s true that men mature later in life but I’m sure you had at least one “childish” guy that even though he’s past his 30 still thinks he’s in high school. A mature man knows the time has come to grow up and be an adult.

It’s easy to tell if a guy is mature by the way he lives his life. Ideally he should live by himself but some might still stay with a roommate. He should under no circumstances live with his parents. I’ve been living by myself since the age of 19 and laugh at when I realize just how many of my friends (over 25) still live with their parents. Also, a mature man will be able to carry himself in a public setting in a respectable manner and understands his adult role. A good man must be mature enough to care for himself and take care of all of his needs on his own.

Is Self-Confident:

A good man will be confident in himself and who he is. This is an important characteristic in a good man because when they are self-confident, they are less likely to change who they are and to stay true to themselves. A man with self-confidence will not be deterred from what he believes to be true and will not be easily pressured into doing things that he does not believe in. Self-confidence makes a man happy and fun to be around because he will not be constantly questioning himself or others around him.

You will know if a man has self-confidence by how he sees himself because he will have a distinctive set of goals that he has set for himself. He will believe that he is worthy of good things and he will set out to find them. This self-confidence will show through because he will not second guess himself and when he makes decisions he will more likely to stick to the decision that he made. Self-confident men are good to be around because they strong and protective and are able to take of not just themselves but those around them.

Has a Positive Attitude:

A good man should have a positive attitude which may be difficult to find since we live in such a negative society. With a positive attitude, people will want to be around him and to have fun around him. A good man will be happy with his life and the world around him and he will want to look out for others and to help them. Positive people are usually quite different from negative people and they tend to smile and laugh more.

You will know if a man has a positive attitude by how he carries himself. He will be upbeat and look for the good in things and people. A negative person will always be complaining and seeing the bad side to everything and after a while they can be very hard to be around and they tend to turn you into a negative person also. With a positive man, he will be smiling and always brightening up people’s days. He will be a joy to be around and his happiness should spread to you and you should feel happy when you are around him.

Remember, you don’t have to look for a man that has ALL of these qualities (although that would be ideal). But, stick to the ones that are most important to you and you’ll find Mr. Right sooner than you think.

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Dating Foreign and Beautiful Women

If you are fascinated by Asian women, then you should know that you are not the only one. There are millions of men out there who are dreaming about Asian women and they really have good reasons to do so. Yet you will never have to worry about that meting an Asian woman will only remain an unfulfilled dream, as nowadays, using the internet you will be able to meet as many Asians as you want, by just signing up on a dating website.

Why Asian women dating?

Men love Asians mostly due to their eyes, which have a special shape that make them look special, sensitive, mysterious and loving. It’s actually true that when it comes to Asian women, they are some of the most caring and loving women on the planet. They are very loyal to their husbands and they will rarely cheat on them, unless they have serious reasons to do so. If you want to meet a beautiful Asian, here are the steps you need to take.

1. First of all find a great dating website that will allow you to met Asian women. After researching on several of them, go with one (paid or free) which will make you feel comfortable and give you a good mood when surfing it.

2. Now, it’s time that you will create a profile. Start by uploading photos of yourself. Make sure that you will only upload decent photos, as women of any race will never love to see a man in his shorts drinking beer or doing anything else that’s considered inadequate for tying a strong bond between two people. You could put up some photos of you at work or maybe some photos of you having fun. This will let them woman know more about you, like your job and the type of activities you do for fun.

3. After uploading the photos, be sure that you will write a description of yourself. It’s important that you don’t write general things that could apply to everyone out there. Be selective with your words, make sure that you will talk from your heart and you will let the potential woman in your life, know exactly what you want her to know about you. It’s these kinds of profiles that will get the most views and of course, the most messages from members.

4. You should also include some movies and music that you like. This way you will let the woman know of your personality and whether you are sensitive and / or romantic.

5. If you get a message from a potential partner, then make sure you will answer it carefully and ask her to meet up. Be sure to remember that Asian women are more sensitive than European or westerns women, so you will have to be a little extra careful with what you say and do when you’re around them.

If you will follow the tips in this article, dating women will no longer be a dream again and you’ll have as many Asian women as you want!

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You’re Awesome And You Know It!

Have you ever felt like she’s too good for you? Or that you may not be good enough for her? Or even wondered how can someone love you? Well I did, and I can tell you that it’s not a pleasant feeling at all; more than that, it’s very harmful for your relationship too.

While it’s totally normal to feel a little insecure from time to time and rely on other people to assure you of your self-worth, however becoming dependent on external validation is something that can really hurt your life and your relationship.

But before I go on talking about how you can become a strong and confident man that your girlfriend will love and respect, I need to quickly define two notions:

Internal Validation – when you see yourself as a cool guy.

External Validation – when the people you spend time with tell you that you are a cool guy.

So, in layman terms internal validation comes from yourself, you feel like being a quality guy, you have a strong belief that you are right, and you don’t allow others to affect this belief; and external validation comes from other people: your girlfriend, your friends, family, colleges, fans etc. when they acknowledge your qualities, praise your success, pay attention to you, listen to your opinions etc.

Now, the big problem that we humans have is that we have a big tendency to rely too much on external validation while having a very poor internal validation. We want other people to acknowledge how cool we are, so that we can feel good about ourselves.

As men we tend to rely too much on women’s validation, thus trying constantly to impress them, seeking their approval, being too needy, becoming overly defensive when criticized, over explaining ourselves and so on. And we do that most of the time without realizing it, because it’s in our nature to seek approval.

As Sigmund Freud said: all our actions are motivated by two powerful desires: sex and approval. Or as William James said: The most profound human need is the thirst of being appreciated.

Therefore, we all seem to need external validation.

But it turns out that seeking external validation is not the best way to go in life. First of all you depend on other people to make you feel good, and when they don’t do it your feel frustrated; when criticized you get too stressed out; plus it makes you greatly unattractive to the opposite sex.

So, the only sure way to go through life is by being internally validated, meaning that you build a strong belief of self worth – you are awesome and you know it!

External validation comes and goes, while true long lasting validation can only come from inside.

Now, it’s okay to enjoy praise and compliments, and get a little upset when being criticized, BUT you need to be internally validated first so that these do not make you feel dependent or put you down too much.
Why women lose attraction for insecure men?
Well, when a man knows his value and he’s internally validated, he behaves like a strong masculine man, who is confident and who’s got character.

And we all know that confidence, masculinity and character are classic traits that women find attractive in men.

Who do you think a girl would love more…

A guy that keeps bragging about his achievements any time he has the chance; a guy who asks her often if she loves him, or if she liked the sex; a guy who asks permission to kiss, hug, have sex with her, and/or if she does not like something he over-explains himself; a guy who gets really pissed off when being criticized…
Or a guy that is self-assured, a guy that feels good about himself, a guy that is able to lead and take decisions on his own, a guy that is not afraid of what other people think of him, a guy that is comfortable with his body, a guy that gives value to other people rather than waiting for others to appreciate him?

The answer is obvious, women love confident, self assured and internally validated men. And if you want to have happy, fulfilling relationships YOU HAVE TO BECOME ONE!

Chances are that you are an amazing guy already… you might have a lot of cool traits, great skills, interesting past experiences, achievements, people to hang out with and so on, but you still tend to be dependent on other people’s validation.

In this case you just need to work a little on yourself… your mind, your body, your social circle, your goals and so on. You want to figure out a way to bring up the best in you and set the foundation for continuous development.



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How To Talk To A Girl You Like – Start Talking Easily With the Girl of Your Dreams

Ne haïssez-vous pas avoir des conversations qui sont tous pareilles ? Si les femmes. Personne ne veut entendre les mêmes questions encore et encore, si vous pouvez vous-même faire ressortir, c’est beaucoup plus facile d’attirer l’attention et de commencer à construire l’attraction. Les femmes sont souvent approchées par des hommes et demande plus ou moins les mêmes questions à chaque fois ; Il en résulte une série de conversations ternes qui mène nulle part.

Faire une déclaration

Au lieu de griller une femme qui vous intéressent avec des questions, prendre une approche différente – essayez de faire des déclarations à la place. Vous obtiendrez toujours la réponse que vous cherchez, mais vous ferez plus d’une impression sur elle en même temps. Si vous vous trompez, elle va corriger vous ; et ceci peut aussi ouvrir la possibilité pour un chat plus personnelle. Vous pourriez également être correct, auquel cas vous pouvez impressionner et générer un rapport presque instantanément.

Open Up

La plupart d’entre nous ne le trouve pas très facile à s’ouvrir sur nos émotions, les insécurités ou encore nos objectifs, en particulier la première fois que nous parlons d’une femme qui nous veulent faire bonne impression sur. Même si difficile qu’il peut être pour ce faire, il faut – passer à un niveau plus profond de la conversation permet de vous connecter sur le plan émotionnel. Nous sommes généralement plus à l’aise, parle de tout sauf de nous-mêmes ; et nous avons été socialisés pour éviter de montrer des signes de vulnérabilité.

Cependant, les femmes ont tendance à voir la vulnérabilité comme un atout, car ils sont beaucoup plus susceptibles que leurs homologues masculins à reconnaître la force qu’il faut pour s’ouvrir à quelqu’un d’autre. Si vous pouvez ouvrir à une femme (sans aller à la mer, bien sûr), vous aurez une bien meilleure chance de démarrer une conversation et maintenant ça va.

Créer un lien émotionnel

Maintenant que nous avons parlé de l’importance de l’ouverture à une femme qui vous intéresse, vous vous demandez probablement comment le faire. Les meilleures ouvertures sont à parler des choses mieux (ou pires) qui se sont produits à vous dans votre vie, au sujet de votre enfance – ou si ce sont un peu trop intenses pour vous d’entrer dans la première fois que vous rencontrez quelqu’un, parler de vos passions dans la vie. En ouvrant un peu, vous commencez à construire la confiance et rapport affectif avec elle qui lui permet d’ouvrir aussi bien à vous. Tant que vous êtes disposé et en mesure de bien écouter et tenir votre fin de la conversation, ce pourrait juste être le début de quelque chose de grand !

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What Are Signs That a Girl Is Attracted to You?

Signs a Girl Is Attracted to You

Dating really delivers excitement and encouragement to a guy. If you already noticed a girl showing some interest in you but you are not sure if she is attracted to you, there are a number of ways which you can see and sense if she is willing to get close to you.

1 Chatting

If this girl is willing to chat with you about different topics, such as your interests, hobbies, your date of birth or your family background, all show curiosity by the girl and that she might be attracted to you. You only met once or twice in person gold coincidently you only chatted in a virtual community but the more questions about you and your background. the more likely it is that she is interested in you.

2 Smiling

If you see a girl smiling when she sees you, it is possible that she may feel shy to say she likes you. Instead, she might smile at you when she passes by you and give you a hint if you could call her. Don’t miss the chance if you have the same feelings as she does.

3 Invitation

If this girl is willing to develop your existing friendship further such as partnership, she might prompt you to waiting for a special party or her birthday. She also guests other guys to expect her party goal during the party, she likes to spend more time with you than the other guys around.

4 Eye contact

In a group of people you are standing beside a girl. When you turned your head around suddenly you noticed a girl looking at you with a smile on her face. She didn’t approach to you, she was still standing there, but her eyes were fixed on you. In this situation, did you realize this girl was showing a sign of interested in you? If she is attracted to you, you could keep your eye contact for a longer time and respond that you noticed her her as well. You could find a chance to approach her, have a light chat, and leave your contact information such as your mobile phone number or your e-mail account with her.

Signs That a Girl Is Attracted to You

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Are You Safe With Online Dating Service?

Some people especially the adults are led to believe that they cannot anymore find true love at their age. However, nowadays, a lot of activities can now be done online with the innovation of the computer including online dating. Because of the numerous online service sites available in the Internet today, a lot of people can now use them to look for a suitable date or even a partner for life. Dating has now slowly become very popular for people to find and meet a special someone for eventual relationship, especially when they have joined a top dating website. In fact, online dating services have now become the online business of many Internet users today.

Online dating sites allow their members to search for other members who have also joined the site. The websites providing the best online dating are those that offer their members easy access in the use of their services. Aside from this, they also offer fast delivery of their services and can be accessed at anytime of the day and anywhere in the world. In addition, they can either be paid or free sites but members can be assured of finding someone of their choice online because they can easily search from the numerous members who have already joined the site.

A lot of single and adult people have been successful in searching for their future partners through the several dating services found in the Internet. Normally, anybody can utilize the features of an online dating service especially that these sites have no limitations other than for the use of minors. The use of these dating services became popular on the worldwide web because most of these are cheap to use if not free-of-charge. In addition to convenient service, they also deliver a fast service. This is the easiest opportunity for most people to meet other members from different walks of life.

Another benefit of online dating is that single people can easily search for other people who share the same activities, qualities, and interests. However, it is not good to fully place your trust on someone to date over the internet as there are people who keep their vices hidden from unsuspecting members. Before arranging for a personal meeting with that someone you met online, it is best to enlist the help of another person to accompany you for security purposes. In addition, for persons meeting for the fist time, find a place that is not too secluded in order to prevent any untoward incident to happen as you can readily call the attention of other people around the area. If there is any chance that someone gets harassed by another member, it can be easy to report any abuse or block the person from your site, preventing him from connecting with you again.

In conclusion, if you want to be successful in the use of an online dating service, especially one who is offering online dating free; it is important that you have to determine first what you are looking for. If you discover that you are being harassed, immediately block the person and report the abuse done. It is best to utilize a dating website well so that you can enjoy their services to the full. is a 100% free online dating service. There are thousands of people using 100% free online dating sites to meet local people in their area.

What Cougars Need to Know About Dating

One of the first things that you should know when it comes to being a cougar is to have an open mind. Women who are in their 40′s or 50′s are usually more reserved, closed if you will, but this is because they have become set in their ways. Be open to new things. If you are going to date cubs – younger men – you should be able to adjust to them and try out new things.

And because they are younger it only means that they may have a different opinion on things. Remember that you will be taking on a new generation of men. It really helps to be accommodating when it comes to their taste. Learn about the current trends, the things that young men enjoy these days. This will greatly help you in catching that younger man.

When you do enter the cougar dating scene the one thing that you should always have with you is confidence. Men find confidence very sexy, especially young men. And cubs would usually gravitate towards a confidant cougar because they know what you already want in life – no more complications. It is important to have confidence in your step, let it translate through your body language and in no time you’ll have yourself a cub.

Since you are already of age, use your experience. Dating has not really changed all that much. People still flirt mercilessly. All you need to do is to ride the wave. Remember that you are the one who has tons of experience when it comes to dating and relationships. Use what you know to your advantage.

Keep in mind that just because you are a lot more mature than them doesn’t mean you should just listen to them all day. A man loves to hear a woman’s opinion and since you are a strong, confident, mature woman you are sure to have a different opinion. Don’t close up when it comes to conversations, speak up and be heard.

The number one thing that you should remember when it comes to cougar dating is not to mother them. Just because you have a large age gap doesn’t mean you should take care of your man. It might come naturally for some cougars to baby their dates but keep in mind that this is wrong. Let him take care of you. Remember that you are dating and not actually babysitting. Go for it naturally, do what you woman’s instincts tell you, not your mother’s instincts.

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Are You Following thesis Online Dating Profile Rules?

Did you know there are certain rules you MUST follow when posting Online Dating Profiles? And this goes DOUBLE for guys! If you aren’t writing Internet Dating profiles the right way, you’ll have NO chance of meeting any women online!

I’m sure you’ve seen all those Online Dating articles telling you how to craft that perfect dating profile with their list of “do’s and don’ts.” These are becoming a common cliche in the online media world.

Well, I’m telling you… most of the advice you’ll see out there is dead wrong! And when it comes to catching a woman’s attention online, you have to be unique and know how to stand out from the “sea of sausage.”

The following are MY top ten rules for successful Online Dating Profiles:

Use a catchy headline that stands out and doesn’t wreak of desperation. Yes, you do NOT want to make any mention of seeking “love” or romance. This is not the place to announce to the world; “I need you.” You do want to make it catchy though and teasers make GREAT profile headlines.
Keep it short! It’s really simple, try and keep your profile “above the fold,” meaning she won’t have to scroll down to read your write-up. Too many guys want to reveal their life story in their dating profiles. As I always say, it comes across too needy and “try hard.” Short and powerful will do wonders for you!
Stop listing facts and using adjectives to describe yourself! Oh man, I see too much of this. I’ll get an email from a guy telling me to review his profile and what’s the first thing I see? That boring list of adjectives; “laid back, adventurous, funny, playful”… etc. Stop it! Women don’t respond to facts, they are emotional creatures and therefore respond to emotions and stories. You need to show illustrations in your profiles and describe exciting events that elicit emotions! Learn to speak their language!
No Negativity of ANY KIND! Yes that’s right, women don’t want to see your issues in your dating profile. You know how people LOVE being around other people who are fun and positive. And you know how people don’t like being around angry, negative people because they make them feel uncomfortable. Well, the same thing applies online. Do NOT talk about your dislike for your Mother, your hatred of your ex, your belief that all women are crazy, your bad luck with dating, your dislike of kids, or dogs, how the President is going to ruin the world, or how you’re doomed with bad luck. Nobody wants to see it… so keep it positive.
Use illustrations to elicit emotions. I mentioned above how women don’t respond to facts and resonate more with emotions. Well, use that to your advantage. Tell a story about something exciting that happened to you recently. Mention how you got out of a dangerous situation once. Talk about something amazing that happened on a recent vacation and how that made you feel. You won’t believe how effective this can be and women will be emailing you wanting to know more!
Be specific about who you’re seeking. The last part of a profile write up will usually ask who you’re seeking. Be sure and know what you want in a woman and talk about it. And no… don’t just say that she needs to be “HOT.” It helps to know what kind of personality you seek and what you want as far as morals, beliefs and values. Don’t be afraid to state your body type preference and if you prefer she not have kids. Always be honest online and don’t be afraid to speak your mind.
Don’t lie about your age or height! This is a big one and so many guys continue to do it. How many times have you read articles about women who met up with a guy who looked NOTHING like his pictures because he was 20 yrs older, or 200 pounds heavier, or three inches shorter? Doesn’t make any sense to lie in your profile because you’ll be absolutely SHOT DOWN once you meet in person.
Use HUMOR in your profile. This is crucial and does so many good things. Using humor makes her laugh and puts her in a positive state of mind. It tells her you don’t take Online Dating too seriously which also shows confidence. Try and be clever and use your OWN sense of humor. It will surely make you stand out from the rest!
Use assertive language in your profile. This is another one that so few guys do. Using assertive language shows confidence which will raise your value in her eyes. You come off as a “take charge” kind of guy who knows what he wants. Nothing is more sexy to a woman.
Get your photos right. It’s real important you post GOOD photos of yourself on your profile. Make sure your main photo shows your smiling face. Your other photos need to be lifestyle shots of you having fun enjoying your hobbies. Include some friends and don’t be alone in all your pics. And no, do not post a picture of you shirtless in the bathroom mirror. Please, this is common sense. Get those photos right!

OK, those are your Online Dating profile guidelines. Stick to them and you’ll be meeting plenty of women online. I guarantee it!

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Dating Again? Try Online Dating!

Many of us found themselves a little lost after ending a long-term relationship. After the time needed to get back on the feet, everyone around the “new” single usually tries to help his/her state of mind, by trying to push them back into the dating world, introducing their single colleagues, acquaintances and so on. All the people I know that passed through a similar situation told me that most of these fixes were a little disturbing, as the only criteria their friends used to select these future dates was their single status, and they couldn’t look at these arranged dates as potential partners.

So most of the people that are “recovering” after a long term relationship find themselves more comfortable choosing their dates rather than being set up on dates. And the easiest way to meet other people is trying online dating sites. Though it takes a little time for singles to get used to the idea of dating through a site, many of them discover its benefits right away. The identity of the subscribers is well protected (on the large reputable sites, of course), each gets to choose the type of person they want to meet and there is no pressure whatsoever.

Online dating had an incredible success over the last few years, as this became the most effective way to get dates for singles all over. There are different studies that claim that over 15 percent of the marriages in US are between people that met on a dating site. As all of us have integrated internet in our lives nowadays, we can use it in order to take control of our lives.

Dating sites may offer what regular dating can’t. There are million people that use dating sites, so we can say there are plenty of fish in the sea, so there is a greater chance a single will find that certain fish they are searching for. Singles will first meet a variety of other people, whom they can chat and discuss with, without having to go on a date. Then they can carefully select the ones they’ll be comfortable with, those they will find they have things in common with, those that physically attract them and so on.

So, there is no need to rely on your friends to get dates. We all are now in control of our dating times, as online dating sites offer us the possibility to choose for ourselves.

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After 40 Dating for Women: Is Your Bedroom Too Girly? How to Attract Your Groom Using Feng Shui

Ladies, is your bedroom’s energy repelling men? Is your bedroom full of chintz, lace, and girly pillows and patterns. Your bedroom’s energy might be too girly to attract relationship oriented marriage-minded men. Don’t fret. This is a quick and easy fix. Discover romance Feng Shui secrets to fix the energy in your home. Stop pushing single men out of your sphere with what is in your bedroom. Start attracting love and romance with Feng Shui secrets right in your bedchamber. He doesn’t even need to see your room for these powerful secrets to have their effect! Read on to learn what to do.

You can implement these tips in just 1 weekend, and start seeing the dramatic changes this week. You’ll notice the dramatic results in your interactions with men by next week.

Feng Shui is powerful for effecting change in your life. The very energy and ambiance of your bedroom is one of the most powerfully effective ways to alter your romantic life.

Take a cold hard look at your bedroom and assess it along these lines.

Is you bedroom full of only girly fabrics like floral chintzes and frilly lace-edged toss pillows?

Do you have a television set, computer, tablet, or other computer-based electronic gadgets in your room?

Is your bed pushed up against a wall, with access to it from only one side?

What images do you have in frames displayed on your bureau? What about the pictures on the wall? Do they feature lone women in fashionable clothers?

Do you have flowers or plants in your bedroom?

If you said “yes” to any or all of these questions, then your bedroom is guilty of jeopartizing your chances with men, and repelling guys.

What can you do?

One color placed in your bedroom that immediately activates romance in your life is the color red. However, red is a super-charged power color. So, while you do want to add it to your bedroom, you also want to use it sparingly. Think to add 2 red candles. Activating the element of fire in a low key manner via a flame light candle also contributes to the romantic attraction ambiance and energy of your single woman’s bedroom.You could additionally add 1 single small red heart shaped pillow. See what I mean? What I suggested were both small items, and only a few of them. Alternatively, you can add some items in pink.

If you have all chintz and lace, just dial it back a bit. Purchase some blue or green sheets for your bed to balance them. And consider removing a few of the pillows so there are only a few of them on your bed.

Electronic device cut the romantic energy of your bedroom. They stimulate things too much mentally in your bedroom which disturbs the mood for romance, resting, and sleep which you desire in a bedchamber. Flowers and plants stimulate too much, also. Remove them to the living room.

Pull you bed out from against the wall so energetically another person could have room here.

Take down any solo woman images from your walls and remove family photos from your bedroom. Place those photos in the living room instead. In your bedroom, have images of pairs. You can have figurines of a boy and girl kissing or artwork which features couples.

Start making these changes this weekend, and light your new candles. Feel the shift by next week with your more romantic couple-oriented energy with men. And remember to smile and flirt with them when you do!

Midlife Dating Expert, Personal Relationship Coach for Women, and Professional Internet Dating Profile Writer empowers single men and women find lasting love. Combining her fun humor with a compassionate approach, Online Dating Coach and Boomer Dating Expert, April Braswell leads singles classes and workshop in the LA area of Southern California. Be sure to get your FREE copy of “10 Secrets to Get a Boyfriend Fast” go to now and subscribe to her ezine:

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